Brendan Fraser on his lifelong search for belonging
From Fresh Air
Brendan Fraser discusses the concept of "rental families" in Japan, a service that addresses the profound loneliness experienced by individuals in a densely populated society by providing surrogate relationships with hired companions. He explores themes of connection, isolation, and the human desire for belonging, illustrating how this unique practice reflects deeper societal issues while acknowledging the value of solitude for contemplation and reflection.
Key Takeaways
- In Japan, you can rent anything; even emotional connections are just a transaction away.
- Loneliness thrives amid crowds; connection often requires a rented family rather than genuine kinship.
- In cultures where therapy is stigmatized, surrogate relationships fill the emotional void—performers as healers.
- Being 'othered' in Japan: a tall white man surrounded by courtesy, showcasing the cultural dance of distance.
- The desire for connection is universal; we all secretly ponder who we'd hire to fill our voids.
Mentioned in This Episode
- Brendan Fraser (person)
- Cornish College of the Arts (company)
- Killers of the Flower Moon (book)
- The Whale (book)
- Akira Emoto (person)
- Oage Nation (company)
- Stella Adler Studio (company)
- Rental Family (book)
- The Mummy (book)